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My association with Dr. Nivedita Rawal Raj began almost three years ago. She has contributed significantly to my emotional, mental and financial health. Our initial sessions were about my inability to get along with my various bosses. She ed me to identify that I had a spontaneous negative reaction to all authority.

She guided me to successfully practice the following :

(A) Delay your reaction

(B) Instead of rebutting criticism, coolly probe and enquire what the other person might be actually looking for

(C) Always remember that all professional relationships are commercial and hence not to bear any grudges or react personally with any of my clients.

The above ed tremendously to boost my relationship with my different clients.

Secondly, she ed me and my wife to bond more closely with each other. This was done by both of us individually realizing that we were different personality types and hence our differences were more to do with difference in personality type rather than any inherent incompatibility. This ed both of us to realize why we failed to understand each others’ behavior at times. So we both had a better understanding and more realistic expectations from each other. Also we discovered several things about each other which we had not been able to tell each other directly. Thirdly, Dr Raval ed me to realistically realize my strengths and weaknesses as well as ed to diagnose my financial health, in order for me to feel reasonably reassured and take a major risk in my career, which paid off well, subsequently. She drove away my demons of apprehension and successfully wrestled with my despondency. Fourthly, she ed me forge better bonds with my siblings by making me realize how magnanimous they actually were when I was looking at them from a very short-sighted perspective. She also ed me to be more forgiving by suggesting the techniques of putting the anger in an envelope and sending it away to the almighty, as well as by giving out imaginary doves of love to people against whom I had developed inflexible biases. Each visit to Dr Raval makes me a richer person with better insights about life. One Dr Raval in life is worth several well meaning and wise friends. Dr Raval has a natural instinct and aptitude for her job which she richly supplements with a compassionate and wise mind.